Spring Inspiration
When the weather warms up and the birds start singing, my husband and I generally get inspired to start a big project. Like clockwork, May and June we will start repainting a room, renovating a porch, building an outbuilding, something. I think almost all of our big home projects through the years have been started when the weather is warm and we feel full of new energy and enthusiasm. The only downside is after working on that new project for a while, it loses its excitement, and we lose our momentum. Whatever endeavor we were working on gets stalled- the new siding gets almost finished but not quite; the room gets painted but the last touch up coat never quite makes it on. Sometimes I pick on my husband about our unfinished projects. But somehow it’s harder to get excited about those finishing touches than it is about starting something new. Many areas in our life can be like those home improvement projects. We are full of enthusiasm and excitement when we start, but somewhere along the way we stall out and never quite finish. Maybe it’s an unfinished college degree; perhaps a business idea that floundered; or possibly a diet and exercise routine that somehow fell to the wayside. If you’ve lost your momentum, find your inspiration again. Go back and finish those life projects you started. If you need to, work with a life coach to make it happen and, this time, see it through to the end.
“I firmly believe we can do what we set our mind to. It takes time and commitment and faith, but God is in the business of miracles. Don’t give up. You have no idea what’s ahead for you.”
--- Luci Swindoll
The Rich Life
I have a three-year old and one on the way. I see other families with two or three school age children and each of them involved in t-ball, soccer, karate, or dance. And I think- don’t you feel like you meet yourself coming and going? Each day becomes full not only of school and work, but then practices, meetings, games, and commitments. Even those without children at home can still succumb to this constant busyness- working late, volunteering, leading groups at church. Not that any of these are bad by themselves, but in all things there is a need for balance. When my bathrooms get so dirty even I hate to use them, I know it is time to slow down and take care of some things. When my husband mentions I haven’t cooked a real meal in too long to remember, I know life’s busyness has crept into our home. No one can do it all, even if they look like they can. To do one activity means not doing another. To spend time with my daughter means not hanging out on Facebook; to clean the kitchen means not watching television. Each moment of our day is a choice. We choose how to spend it and what value we place on it. Choose wisely. If you feel like everyone else is in control of your schedule except you, maybe it is time to stop and evaluate. Seek assistance if you need it to get back in control of your day and bring balance back into your schedule.
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Challenge of the week: Imagine you can have three wishes granted. What would they be? Would you wish for money, a nicer house, a better marriage, more patience? Think deeply about it and write them down. Go back and look at your list often.
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Emily Frazier is a life coach who specializes in working with people who are feeling overwhelmed, out of balance, or at a crossroads in life. She believes that we all have a God-given purpose, and loves helping others discover what their life’s purpose is. If you would like to talk with Emily about how she can help you in these areas, contact her today for a free consultation: emily@fraziercoaching.com
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